I don't think I ever told you that my wife had a stroke. At the age of 34. Just fucking out of the blue. Listen, if she can come back from it and have just wee bits of weirdness on her left side but is back to coding, full on, you can do the same. Ya know why? Because you are both a couple of hardcore, spicey bitches and that's what I love about both of you. Tell hubs to start talking parenthetically so we know it's him and blaze on my friend. Blaze on. You be a'ight. Reach out if you just wanna dish. Love to you, et al... <3 <3 <3
Actually, this dictation sounds a lot like you, Spicy, so, well-done both of you. I’m so glad you both have a solid support and care system. I’ll feel better knowing you’re taking all the care of yourself that your care team advises. Until you’re back into 100% Spicy Shape, we shall be the Spicy we want to see in our world.
Please take good care! You have been through so much this past year. I'm so sorry this happened. Let your friends and family be your nest; let them cover you with wings of comfort. Sending gentle hugs and prayers for healing and strength.
I am so very sorry my friend. Millions of hugs to you. File cabinets always recover. Your husband I’m not So sure. I wish I could be there to help. Love you lots. ❤️
Well fuck. That stroke really don't know what it threw itself against, do it? I can only imagine how pissed off you are by this turn of events. Good. Let that anger & frustration give you the fuel you need to get you to the other side of this unexpected turn of events. As a caretaker myself, I have to make a plug for your Hubs. Do your best not to lose patience with him even though I know the temptation will be high. After all, you are a strong, intelligent, independent woman. This deviation from the norm will be tough to take for both of you. Hubs? I'm assuming you'll be reading this. Make sure to take care of yourself, ask for help & take breaks so you don't burnout. You'll be no help to Spicy, your kids or yourself if you fry all your own circuits. I wish you both the very best of luck in navigating this situation. Take care of yourselves & each other. Spicy, I will patiently await the day when you're back on here dishing the snark as only you can! Hubs? Please keep us posted as you're able about how Spicy is fairing. Your girl is very important to her fans!
You are a force to be reckoned with. You are so strong.
Was shocked, dismayed, worried, whatever when I read this but after following you for too many years (I was young then, now I'm what some want to call a senior old person. Fuck them) ,I know you will prevail.
All the good karma that I'm allowed to send is being sent to you.
My heart breaks reading your blog today. You have my email and I want you to use it if you need an ear or need a hand. You have my unwavering support. I’m screaming in my head right now, holy shit, holy shit, holy shit. Don’t hesitate. I’m here.
Dear Filey, I'm so sorry to hear you've had a stroke. Glad you have good support and are taking time to recuperate and get the kinds of medical care and physical therapy you need. Understand how frustrating it must be, but please take whatever time you need to take care of yourself, and to now worry too much about what you cannot do or get to. Here for you and am praying for your complete recovery. You can do this. Love, C
I’m so very sorry to hear this. I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and sending healing vibes for a complete and timely recovery. Bless you dear.❤️
Oh Filey! Sending your huge nice and positive vibes from Canada for as long as you need. You are here, you are a fighter and modern medicine is amazing. It will take time and stubbornness but you will get there! Celebrate the small steps. Be kind to yourself.
Filey, obviously the snark, sass, and spice were left completely in tact, for which we are all grateful. Lean into your support system and indulge in all of the care you are due for being the mom, wife, and generous truth-teller extraordinaire that you are. Keep Mr. Filey on his toes and we will be here for you through it all because despite not knowing you personally, we love ya, sister! Well wishes from an appreciative Filey fan.
You are respected and loved by so many. Let yourself rest in that knowledge so you can get back to the best version of Filey —whatever that ends up being.
Pretty sure your husband nailed it. And Im pretty sure these PT folks are in for a spicyfication of an education. Get well soon. Xoxoxo
I don't think I ever told you that my wife had a stroke. At the age of 34. Just fucking out of the blue. Listen, if she can come back from it and have just wee bits of weirdness on her left side but is back to coding, full on, you can do the same. Ya know why? Because you are both a couple of hardcore, spicey bitches and that's what I love about both of you. Tell hubs to start talking parenthetically so we know it's him and blaze on my friend. Blaze on. You be a'ight. Reach out if you just wanna dish. Love to you, et al... <3 <3 <3
Actually, this dictation sounds a lot like you, Spicy, so, well-done both of you. I’m so glad you both have a solid support and care system. I’ll feel better knowing you’re taking all the care of yourself that your care team advises. Until you’re back into 100% Spicy Shape, we shall be the Spicy we want to see in our world.
Spicy! You're strong and as Natalie said, you're a 'hardcore spicy bitch' bada$$! Take care of yourself...we're here pulling for you!
WHAT?????
Oh, my dear, my dear... I am so sorry.
Just pack your superhero cape away for a bit, and (PLEASE!) take care of you.
Please take good care! You have been through so much this past year. I'm so sorry this happened. Let your friends and family be your nest; let them cover you with wings of comfort. Sending gentle hugs and prayers for healing and strength.
I am so very sorry my friend. Millions of hugs to you. File cabinets always recover. Your husband I’m not So sure. I wish I could be there to help. Love you lots. ❤️
Well fuck. That stroke really don't know what it threw itself against, do it? I can only imagine how pissed off you are by this turn of events. Good. Let that anger & frustration give you the fuel you need to get you to the other side of this unexpected turn of events. As a caretaker myself, I have to make a plug for your Hubs. Do your best not to lose patience with him even though I know the temptation will be high. After all, you are a strong, intelligent, independent woman. This deviation from the norm will be tough to take for both of you. Hubs? I'm assuming you'll be reading this. Make sure to take care of yourself, ask for help & take breaks so you don't burnout. You'll be no help to Spicy, your kids or yourself if you fry all your own circuits. I wish you both the very best of luck in navigating this situation. Take care of yourselves & each other. Spicy, I will patiently await the day when you're back on here dishing the snark as only you can! Hubs? Please keep us posted as you're able about how Spicy is fairing. Your girl is very important to her fans!
You are a force to be reckoned with. You are so strong.
Was shocked, dismayed, worried, whatever when I read this but after following you for too many years (I was young then, now I'm what some want to call a senior old person. Fuck them) ,I know you will prevail.
All the good karma that I'm allowed to send is being sent to you.
Kick this strokes arse.
Patti
My heart breaks reading your blog today. You have my email and I want you to use it if you need an ear or need a hand. You have my unwavering support. I’m screaming in my head right now, holy shit, holy shit, holy shit. Don’t hesitate. I’m here.
Dear Filey, I'm so sorry to hear you've had a stroke. Glad you have good support and are taking time to recuperate and get the kinds of medical care and physical therapy you need. Understand how frustrating it must be, but please take whatever time you need to take care of yourself, and to now worry too much about what you cannot do or get to. Here for you and am praying for your complete recovery. You can do this. Love, C
I’m so very sorry to hear this. I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and sending healing vibes for a complete and timely recovery. Bless you dear.❤️
My fondest most loving thoughts are with you and your family and friends as you recover- which you will!!!!
Oh Filey! Sending your huge nice and positive vibes from Canada for as long as you need. You are here, you are a fighter and modern medicine is amazing. It will take time and stubbornness but you will get there! Celebrate the small steps. Be kind to yourself.
Filey, obviously the snark, sass, and spice were left completely in tact, for which we are all grateful. Lean into your support system and indulge in all of the care you are due for being the mom, wife, and generous truth-teller extraordinaire that you are. Keep Mr. Filey on his toes and we will be here for you through it all because despite not knowing you personally, we love ya, sister! Well wishes from an appreciative Filey fan.
You are respected and loved by so many. Let yourself rest in that knowledge so you can get back to the best version of Filey —whatever that ends up being.