I have your back 100%. Stay strong! I hate this is happening to you and more so your family.
FYI - I have been reading their nonsense just to keep up. Their only proof is screen shots with names blacked out - without any background context that really make no sense.
Some of them are straight up doctored but the farcical counter argument is - in a word? Sad because there’s only one side that keeps changing the story/narrative and that in of itself is incredibly telling. Seeing them team up with my known stalker - is an interesting choice <snort> and a bad one at that.
Great post by you. I can never thank you enough. You provide all the data. And then you remind us to take time and relax. Doesn't always work well with us Type As but it is a good reminder and we do pause to reflect. I really don't know how you do it all, wish I could do it and knew how to do it. I have always appreciated what you bring at all times. So incredibly invaluable to all.
So many are struggling in a thousand different ways. I've learned in Life101 to take a moment to listen, help where I can, and maybe give a hug or two.
BTW, Filey, you're alright. Take care of yourself.
My late father was a doctor and a healing voice. He was kind to everyone and much loved. Throughout my childhood, he taught us about restraint...he used to say “you can hang yourself with your own tongue”. I didn’t know what he meant when I was a child, but as an adult, I’ve heard these words in my mind repeatedly, reminding me to be mindful of my words, my responses & my reactions. My silence is usually reflective and when I am stressed or in conflict, wait for the other person to forget their filter, not edit their words& speak with carelessness...in other words, hang themselves with their own tongue. I know in today’s culture, it’s a crude phrase, but it still rings true for myself.
As Ram Dass says, “The quieter you become, the more you can hear.”
You father sounds like he was wonderful and wise man. It reminds me of my own - who recently passed away - mine would repeatedly tell me; “your words are like bullets -once you fire them, you can’t take them back” - I completed understand not wanting to speak out as to avoid the stress - it’s something that I struggle with. Meaning I could just unload all the info I have, which would categorically refute the lies and smears. Conversely it is amusing to see doctored DMs being presented as “evidence”. In my industry the more “complicated” the rebuttal is, the less likely it is to be credible. However using “wires” to not only defame but presenting fake/doctored or out of context communiques is a tactic used by the guilty parties. His biggest attack dog is a massive liability. So I sit and quietly preserve the evidence that they are proffering.
I can’t imagine how difficult it is to not jump in and present your evidence of the lies & smears. One thing that works in your favor is that in your silence, the more the perpetrators go on, the more ridiculous they appear as they are screaming into a void. The narrative manipulation was about deflecting some of the most infuriating behavior. Picking on divisive threads to inflame others was the only tool they had. It is emotional arson. The more obscure & convoluted attacks, will only result in their bringing themselves down on their own. It truly revealed deeply flawed individuals who seek affirmation from attacking others. My very best to you. It is difficult to imagine the stress. This too shall pass and the karma here will speak volumes to those who prey on others and exploit them. ❤️
I’m not sure what is going on but I know you are a great person only trying to inform and provide the tools for our own research. I am sure your lawyers are thankful for having a client such as you, well prepared and willing to listen.
Blessings sent your way on this beautiful morning!
The long haul stuff is super gnarly - between the brain fog, hair falling out, headaches that make migraines feel like nothing and the insomnia. Hope you’re not enduring any of that too <hugs>
Oh man, you just described everything that has been happening to me for the past 7 days.. I. was hoping I'd get better.. Idk.. I'm trying to hang in there.. I hope a lot of rest will help. I see my doctor again tomorrow.. 😕
Ugg - I genuinely understand. I’m not a Dr or RN so this isn’t medical advise. When my long haul symptoms refused to go away & got worse my GP had to create a food/daily log. He also ran my Vit D blood test. Normal range is 50 nmol/l or 20 ng/ml - mine came back low, like really low. Less than 3 nmol. He wrote me an RX for Ergocal it’s 50,000U of Vit D. Taking 2 twice a week and then once a week. Oddly my symptoms started to improve except the insomnia
That is a beautiful song from a new-to-me duo. Thank you. I’ve gained so much from your work, which I have shared with so many people, that I’d like to give you a little something similarly beautiful to what you gave us here. From Icelandic band Arstidr, “You Again.” Be well and safe. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lrehHSIfjaQ
I have your back 100%. Stay strong! I hate this is happening to you and more so your family.
FYI - I have been reading their nonsense just to keep up. Their only proof is screen shots with names blacked out - without any background context that really make no sense.
They are 100% Junior High gossip level. 🙄
Some of them are straight up doctored but the farcical counter argument is - in a word? Sad because there’s only one side that keeps changing the story/narrative and that in of itself is incredibly telling. Seeing them team up with my known stalker - is an interesting choice <snort> and a bad one at that.
Great post by you. I can never thank you enough. You provide all the data. And then you remind us to take time and relax. Doesn't always work well with us Type As but it is a good reminder and we do pause to reflect. I really don't know how you do it all, wish I could do it and knew how to do it. I have always appreciated what you bring at all times. So incredibly invaluable to all.
Well I appreciate that you find value in my research and my “thoughts” - thank you for the kind words of encouragement- very much appreciated
So many are struggling in a thousand different ways. I've learned in Life101 to take a moment to listen, help where I can, and maybe give a hug or two.
BTW, Filey, you're alright. Take care of yourself.
Thank you. I have been struggling. But I am letting more people in lately about the reality of my situation. I love you. Please take care.
You’re one of the strongest yet most nurturing individuals I know. Lurves you too
We all support you 💯
💃 Strong women know how to get things done 😉
Fuuurr sure - hope all is well with you and yours
My late father was a doctor and a healing voice. He was kind to everyone and much loved. Throughout my childhood, he taught us about restraint...he used to say “you can hang yourself with your own tongue”. I didn’t know what he meant when I was a child, but as an adult, I’ve heard these words in my mind repeatedly, reminding me to be mindful of my words, my responses & my reactions. My silence is usually reflective and when I am stressed or in conflict, wait for the other person to forget their filter, not edit their words& speak with carelessness...in other words, hang themselves with their own tongue. I know in today’s culture, it’s a crude phrase, but it still rings true for myself.
As Ram Dass says, “The quieter you become, the more you can hear.”
I think this suits your astute mind.
Best, T❤️
You father sounds like he was wonderful and wise man. It reminds me of my own - who recently passed away - mine would repeatedly tell me; “your words are like bullets -once you fire them, you can’t take them back” - I completed understand not wanting to speak out as to avoid the stress - it’s something that I struggle with. Meaning I could just unload all the info I have, which would categorically refute the lies and smears. Conversely it is amusing to see doctored DMs being presented as “evidence”. In my industry the more “complicated” the rebuttal is, the less likely it is to be credible. However using “wires” to not only defame but presenting fake/doctored or out of context communiques is a tactic used by the guilty parties. His biggest attack dog is a massive liability. So I sit and quietly preserve the evidence that they are proffering.
I can’t imagine how difficult it is to not jump in and present your evidence of the lies & smears. One thing that works in your favor is that in your silence, the more the perpetrators go on, the more ridiculous they appear as they are screaming into a void. The narrative manipulation was about deflecting some of the most infuriating behavior. Picking on divisive threads to inflame others was the only tool they had. It is emotional arson. The more obscure & convoluted attacks, will only result in their bringing themselves down on their own. It truly revealed deeply flawed individuals who seek affirmation from attacking others. My very best to you. It is difficult to imagine the stress. This too shall pass and the karma here will speak volumes to those who prey on others and exploit them. ❤️
PS, I’m really sorry for the loss of your father...it’s a tough one. ❤️
I’m not sure what is going on but I know you are a great person only trying to inform and provide the tools for our own research. I am sure your lawyers are thankful for having a client such as you, well prepared and willing to listen.
Blessings sent your way on this beautiful morning!
Thank you
Simple. Acoustic. Harmony. So lovely. Thanks for making me cry...
Tears are good - they can be cleansing
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Simply stated you are a gift to us. I’m so sorry to hear about your long haul symptoms. And LURVE your Oceanside pictures. Be safe Be Weller
One of my most favorite songs. Thank you Sp. Your a amazing person❤️
Love them, thanks, Filey.
If I read Byron and I’m at our beach house listening to them - that is what I think heaven will be like.
Sure sounds like it. 📖🏖
Thank you..💗
No thank you for reading - I hope you & yours are doing okay
Yes, thank you. Getting over Covid. Thank goodness I was the only that caught it.. I hope you and your loved stay safe.. ☺
The long haul stuff is super gnarly - between the brain fog, hair falling out, headaches that make migraines feel like nothing and the insomnia. Hope you’re not enduring any of that too <hugs>
Oh man, you just described everything that has been happening to me for the past 7 days.. I. was hoping I'd get better.. Idk.. I'm trying to hang in there.. I hope a lot of rest will help. I see my doctor again tomorrow.. 😕
Ugg - I genuinely understand. I’m not a Dr or RN so this isn’t medical advise. When my long haul symptoms refused to go away & got worse my GP had to create a food/daily log. He also ran my Vit D blood test. Normal range is 50 nmol/l or 20 ng/ml - mine came back low, like really low. Less than 3 nmol. He wrote me an RX for Ergocal it’s 50,000U of Vit D. Taking 2 twice a week and then once a week. Oddly my symptoms started to improve except the insomnia
Thank you, I'll mention this along with some meds another friend told me about.. You're so kool.. Thank you.. Enjoy your evening my dear..😊💗
That is a beautiful song from a new-to-me duo. Thank you. I’ve gained so much from your work, which I have shared with so many people, that I’d like to give you a little something similarly beautiful to what you gave us here. From Icelandic band Arstidr, “You Again.” Be well and safe. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lrehHSIfjaQ
😍exquisitely beautiful 😍 thank you -