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Jun 13, 2022Liked by File411

This article was a corker, thanks. I'm happy you're seeking assistance; unresolved trauma and grief stacks up, and we form a construct to box it up, and a single event like your recent one can make it all fall apart. Family first, and our best attempts can sometimes fall a bit short (I know that we'll). Your Atlas shoulders could use a little lightening 🙏

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Thank you for starting this issue with the Oath to the Constitution. Even I, as a lowly Peace Corps Volunteer, took that oath and to this day, I honor it. If we do not preserve and protect our Constitution our ongoing experiment in Democracy is over.

That orange POS should be sitting in Leavenworth right now.

Take care of yourself. We shall await your return.

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I’ve always admired Peace Corp Volunteers. And as you know (specifically for the Armed Services) that oath is a lifeline oath. I just felt that some of my readers might benefit from understanding the differences in the oath of office. With respect to the orange 🍊💩🐒 I fully endorse your statement. It’s time to hold Trump criminally responsible for his indefensible behavior

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I’m really hoping you can take a break and decompress. You’ve been so dedicated to all of us and sharing your knowledge. It’s time to take care of you and lean on others. It’s always reassuring to hear that you’ve spoken to a grief counselor because it belies how strong you are to know when to ask for help. That’s bravery! You’ve got so many gifts and now it’s time to use them to heal yourself. Past trauma is easy to push back to the corners of your mind when you are on the go 24/7. I wish you peace and above all, a chance to grieve properly. We will still be here! Sending you much love….❤️

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Yes, thank you for starting this with the Oath to the Constitution. I was proud when I took it in the Air Force. Thank you for breaking this down. The J6 committee is doing a stellar job of showing us who the orange one is. You bring it all together. Thank you!

We are all glad you are seeking help. We are thankful you are strong enough to see the need. We probably could have told you that you are spread thin just from your work and what you do on here. Take care File-y, we will be here when you return. We appreciate you!

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I think there was a misconception when I was on Twitter that I fixated on the oath of office —that was partially true. But in my industry when you become an officer of the Court you take a similar oath. Moreover as an officer of the Court you are duty bound report those who are violating their oath (re Canons. Professional Rules of Conduct etc) so I felt like reminding my readers about the oath of office —I’m working on a follow up article because Trump’s second impeachment those Republican Senators signed an additional oath. Therefore the SpicyFiles imma gonna drop over the weekend —well I like symmetry. That is coming full circle because every single Senate Republican that voted to acquit Trump —that should cost them their Senate seat…whoopsie

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Can't wait as I know it will be SPICY! Whenever you can put it out.

As for the oath, I believe in it, I took it, and I trust it. If we live by that with decency and kindness towards humanity, we can look at ourselves in the mirror.

Snark is good and necessary. Really appreciate you and all your wisdom. We all do.

Take care of you and yours.

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You are an amazing person. To continue to function while dealing with the multiple crises the universe has set in your path is nothing but remarkable. You're one badass btch. You can and will overcome. With the guidance of a professional, your path, though bumpy, is doable. Love and light to you.

With regard to the oath of office, lawful, moral and ethical are all words I would use to describe what the angry orange absolutely is not, and never has been... I don't want to lend energy to his being, so that's all I'm giving.

Please take care of yourself, your family and friends need you... <3

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Thanks for all you do, I mean you seriously have kept me grounded when I was ready to explode during the last few years. I appreciate your experience & knowledge of the laws in the USA. I’ve learned more from you than anyone (it’s the truth). So to that end I just want to thank you 😊 but now, you need to take care of you (we will be ok out here). Admitting you do need counselling is not an easy step to take, I’ve been there. Grief doesn’t have a timeline, and not dealing with past grief does catch up to you when you least expect it. So, because you have always been there for everyone else, it is now time for you to take care of you and your family. You need time to do that, so don’t worry about the rest of us. We will be ok knowing you are going to be ok also one day. Take care and get some Vitamin Sea for yourself. We are always here for you too

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Me lurves you too and I’m grateful every time you (re)find me, yet again 🥰

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Filey, I am so proud of you! You have maintained your integrity through what has been a surreal trying time and have the strength to recognize when you need help. Grief doesn’t have a timeline as you have mentioned impacting your life. Take the time needed. Life is short and you deserve the best one. We will be the invisible support should you need it. Thank you for all you have and will do. Peace

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The thing is I thought I had the prerequisite tools to deal with the grief. But it’s only when you’re actually dealing with grief, like “ being in a raging storm” only then did I realize that I needed to get help from a professional grief counselor. They gave me 4 tasks to complete before this week’s session. I’ve completed 3 of 4 —the last task is tomorrow, where I’m going to his grave. I wrote him a letter and when I go to the cemetery if it feels right then I’ll burn that letter. The counselor explained that it’s both a spiritual and metaphysical exercise to take a tiny step forward. Crossing my fingers for tomorrow

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Jun 14, 2022Liked by File411

This. I love it when you do this: “ One thing most people won’t tell you is 18 USC §1505 has an accompanying code (that many actually overlook)” Be well. Take care of you.

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And mah job here is done

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Spicy you take care of yourself. Family is always #1. Also dealing with the tragic loss is going to take some time & im not talking a few days or weeks. The 1st year you will go through so many emotions. Remember, it’s not your fault. You are good with facts, not predicting the future. Huge HUGS!! 🤗

We owe you so much for you writing these threads for us & shining the light! Your brain is incredible! I wish I had a photographic brain! It’s beautiful gift you received! ❤️ Love yourself first. We will remain loyal to you!

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Thank you for being so brave. Take care of yourself and the fam.

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Big huge hugs. ♥️

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Thanks mama right back at ya 😘

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